Numbers matter less than genuine connection and demonstrated value before commitment. Girl won't go out if uncomfortable or sees you as run-of-the-mill bar guy. At Boston bar making out, nearly fucking. Girl didn't return call or text. Last draw. Something needed doing. That's when I started experimenting with new techniques. For marriage prospects, this principle applies deeply: quality interaction beats tactical perfection every single time always matters more.

Stop asking "can I have your number?" If getting numbers, don't ask—tell them. "I'll take your number and call next week." Or hand them phone. Roissy verified technique works. Reverse psychology highly effective. When girl isn't biting, prompting her initiate exchange crucial. Bang teaches asking for date, not number. Just asking number means that's all you'll get. For marriage seekers, this approach builds commitment through genuine interaction

Process matters more than getting number itself always. If mind focuses only close, you're inwardly focused like actor unable seeing audience. Love every minute interacting—wordplay, humor, stories shared. Incredible close technique won't matter otherwise. Tyler's method very good, but works because method itself or because staying conversation longer? Attraction stronger when not mere act asking. She impatient? Decides doing herself.

Impossible proving one technique "works," so focus entire interaction and how making her feel. Many ways fucking up getting number exist. Keep breezy asking date—doesn't differ long run significantly. Game gradually improves running experiments doing different things beyond technique mastery. For marriage and casual relationships alike, prioritizing genuine connection over tactical perfection ensures sustainable attraction and follow-through on commitments always matters most fundamentally.